Solopreneur

Kick Them Out

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What is your great influencer? Some are easy to spot, but not all are, though. The tough one to find is the one you don't know exists. It has your attention. It affects you everyday. But, you don't realize it.

My recommendation is to sift through and figure out what gets your attention. Then ask yourself, "Does this influence me?"

See. Negative influences are so powerful because they slip down deep into your inner circle. Meaning. They are embedded in your heart and mind. Which is your most sacred space. But, like a good bouncer at a popular bar, you must kick them out.

Only the influences that help you become your true self are invited in.

If you need anything, just email me. I’m always here to help.

Three Questions

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1 . Could you stand discovering a hidden part of you?

2 . When it showed itself, would you have the courage to embrace it?

3 . And, if you couldn't, would that make you weak?

The answer is absolutely, positively not. Weakness has nothing to do with not wanting to see that part of you that is referred to as your shadow. Think about it. It sits in a hidden place. Unseen. Disassociated from anything viewable in your life.

But, like a stone in your shoe, it's there. It hurts. Negatively affecting every relationship you have. Including the most important relationship. The one you have with yourself. For it is your sense of self that directs what you do, how you do it, and how much joy you gain from it.

So. Know this. You’re healthy, true self get expressed — only to the degree — that it is visible. And. What about the invisible? Unfortunately, what you can't see about yourself has the power to have a negative affect on just about everything you can see.

But, of course, you don't know it, cause you can't see it.

If you need anything, just email me. I’m always here to help.

Just the Numbers

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Quick Facts About Stress:

➡︎ Americans spend $11.3 billion per year to cope with stress.
➡︎ Over 90% of disease is caused or complicated by stress.
➡︎ Job stress is estimated to cost U.S. industry $300 billion annually.
➡︎ Percentage of adults being treated for depression: 54%.
➡︎ Stress has been linked to all leading causes of death, including heart disease and cancer.
➡︎ Long-term stress is strongly associated with depression, heart disease, and weakened immune system.
➡︎ Up to 60% of employee absences are due to psychological problems such as stress and depression.
➡︎ Estimated percentage of American adults attempting to control stress: 95%

What are your stress level like?

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Just Listen to Your Heart

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When your life is in the flow, it feels fantastic. When you are stuck, it feels funky. What makes this happen? Fear. To remedy this, when fear hits, use all your energy to break free of the internal messages keeping you stuck. How do you do that? By listening to your heart. It will tell you what you need to do.

If you need anything, just email me. I’m always here to help.

Recognize the Signal

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How long does it take for you to make a decision, get started, or finish something? For me, it depends. It depends on my emotional investment. And, my struggle, is to quiet my emotions as my work moves me into deeper waters.

So, the lesson here is not to be unemotional. The lesson is to recognize that your emotions are a signal. The stronger the signal, the greater the decision.

In a nutshell, your destiny is calling.

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In Jeopardy

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There is a difference between chunking activities and going crazy on one activity. It all rests in your prioritization.

Low-level activities such as cleaning, shopping, or paying bills should be chunked. Top-priority activities —such as pursuing a great business idea — requires your full-on attention and tons of time.

Hear me, though. If you do not have the self-mastery to arrange this required order, the success of your dream will be in jeopardy.

Bottom line: Protect your dream with devoted focus.

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See Yourself as Free

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Do you feel free or do you feel torn?

Feeling torn comes from unresolved issues. Issues about an important problem (or situation). Unable to find a resolution, you feel frozen.

Thaw out this frustrating predicament by seeing yourself as free. Free to focus on making a decision. Any decision. But make one. In other words, set an objective and take action.

Bottom line: Tear up and discard the feeling of feeling torn.

If you need anything, just email me. I’m always here to help.

Connect the Dots

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To me, life is about connecting the dots. Example? You go out for dinner, order lobster, go home, and swell up. When you connect the dots, you realize you're allergic to shellfish.

That was easy. But, what if, the things you do — day in and day out — end up being unhealthy for you? What if, you can't connect the dots? And, best of all, what if you are really, really good at covering up the disconnect?

Meaning, inside of you, you're empty and lost. Outside of you, you're busy and smiling. This pattern — of ignoring what hurts you —really hurts you in the long run.

What is the downside? The downside is a half-lived life.

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Morning Matters

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Try this. Pick up your bedroom before going to bed. Lay out workout clothes for the morning. Fill up your water bottle and put it in the refrig. Set your alarm clock 30 minutes earlier than you normally get up. Then, in the morning, stretch, meditate, journal, or exercise. Do something just for you.

Believe me. A lot of good can come out of losing 30 minutes of sleep.

If you need anything, just email me. I’m always here to help.

That One Thing

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Let me ask you something. What would you say is the one thing holding you back from your success? You know. What is the one thing you feel you need to make success happen? Think about it for a minute.

Is it more time? What about more money? Maybe your one thing is someone who supports your efforts. Well, listen up. As hard as this is to hear, you've got to find a way to get around it.

For starters, you could work around this by adjusting the steps you're taking. In other words, if money is short right now, figure out what else you can do (toward your goal) until the money situation improves.

Need more time? Try to stop worrying about time. Instead, start prioritizing what's important to you. Example? If you want to succeed at losing weight, make time to walk. Even if it's only 10 minutes. Get walking.

This formula works. And here's why. It works because for every step you take, you’re experiencing immediate success.

If you need anything, just email me. I’m always here to help.

Don't ever allow that one thing
stop you from succeeding.