Are you picking stuff or is it picking you? In other words, do you get up deciding how you want your day to go down? Or, does it just happen?
And, when your head hits the pillow at night, what is your answer to the question, "What happened — today — that got me closer to my goal?"
If your answer is 'nothing', things need to change. Living by default will catch up with you. It's called regret.
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