Here are three quick questions to help you assess your sense of Self:
#1 Do you help people, or, do you look for people to help you?
#2 Are you a good listener, or, do you do all the talking?
#3 Are you loved, or, are you looking for someone to love you?
There are no wrong answers. But. One energy seems to be more fulfilling and has the power to attract more of the same.
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