Can you say goodbye -- to the parts of you -- you no longer want? If your answer is no, maybe, you don't have to. Why not invite them to stay? Consider accepting them (as they are). Then. See your limitations, as part of your genius. Need an example? Brassiness. It's what got you through a tough divorce. See. Self-acceptance -- of your whole self -- is what makes you whole. Life Is Fabulous!