When wanting to make a change in your life, you have a couple of options. You can do stuff -- along with something. Or, you can do stuff -- instead of something. Here's an example of doing 'along with something'. You need to look for work. So. You work -- and -- you look for work. Here's an example of doing something 'instead of something'. You completely stop working as a food server, then, go back to school to study design. So. Do along, or, instead. Trust me. This one tip has the power to change your life for the better. Life Is Fabulous!