When you don't know what's going on, do you fill in the blanks with something bad? You know. You applied for a new job, but, haven't heard if you've been hired. You think, "Bet they didn't hire me." Try not to do that. Why? Because it's more than a bad habit. It's your subconscious -- feeding a consistent negative message -- to you. And, that message reinforces this idea that you have faulted -- in some way. In other words, you -- on a deep level -- feel the universe will not let you get that perfect job, find a wonderful partner, or live the life you ultimately want. Understand this. Things turn out the way they turn out. They don't turn out badly because you're bad. There's peace in that. Life Is Fabulous!