When you take something in, do you bring straight in? Or, do you give it a good twist? What does that mean? Well. For example, let's say someone pays you a compliment. You twist it by thinking, "I'm not really attractive." That interaction (with the other person) is reflecting back to you -- how you see yourself. And, in this case, a negative reflection. So. Pay close attention to what you are getting twisted. Use it as a guide for how you feel about you -- your sense of self. Bottom line: How you see yourself is what matters most. Life Is Fabulous!