Do you know what ITALAIT means? It means: It Takes As Long As It Takes. Like. How long will it take before my jeans fit looser? Answer: ITALAIT. Find a new job? ITALAIT. Find someone to love? ITALAIT. Now. Go write that down. Put it everywhere you need to see it. And, remind yourself over, and over, and over, and over. It takes as long as it takes. There you go. You got it. Life Is Fabulous!