Well learned lessons can trap you into automatic responses. This can create havoc in your life. You don't really know what's happening. You only know that every time you are involved in something related to your past, you react. New date. Old stuff. If you can, try and stop this from repeating itself. For example, if you seem to repeatedly meet negative people, see that pattern for what it is. It is the universe reminding you that it is time to change the pattern. To do this, put intention on surrounding yourself with healthy, uplifting people. Then, when a negative person approaches you, let them walk on by. Life Is Fabulous!